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The Month I Shot Myself In My Own Foot
Everything looked fine from the outside but I was losing momentum in every second...

There was this one month where I thought I had it all figured out.
I had just crossed 50K followers.
We were making money.
Inbound leads were coming in without me lifting a finger.
The calendar was full. The funnel was working.
It finally felt like I was “in flow.”
I had finally reached a level of predictability I’d worked years to create.
So naturally, I decided it was time to “optimize.”
I delegated more, began posting less and started automating the parts of the brand that once gave me energy.
I wasn’t being lazy. I wasn’t checked out.
But I was slowly disconnecting from the very thing that built my business in the first place: my voice.
That month was the quietest my DMs had ever been.
My content didn’t land the way it used to.
Sales slowed down even though I was “using the same strategy.”
That’s when I realized I had fallen for a dangerous lie most founders buy into:
That once you “build the machine,” you can disappear.
But my personal brand was never a machine.
It was a mirror.
And if the person behind it wasn’t growing, reflecting, or creating from truth, people could sense it.
It was disorganization that held me back.
I was busy… but unaligned.
We talk a lot about “building leverage” and “scaling yourself,”
But no amount of delegation could replace my own clarity.
And I had made the fatal mistake of trying to automate before I had fully stabilized.
There’s this quote from Clay Christensen that I think about a lot:
“The decisions that cause failure are usually made when things feel safest.”
And that was the exact trap I fell into.
I thought I had outgrown the fundamentals.
But when you’re building a personal brand, the fundamentals never go away.
My voice was my strategy. My clarity was my content. My energy was my system.
I didn’t have my 30-minute interview extraction locked in yet (it’s what we use now to run the personal brands that work with our agency).
Without these, I became just another expert on autopilot.
That month I learned something most founders never recover from:
Momentum doesn’t die in a crash.
It dies in small compromises.
From one email I don’t write, one post I let someone else phone in, one assumption I didn’t correct.
And suddenly, all these compound over time and you end up scaling a brand you don’t even feel connected to.
You need to remember what made you dangerous in the first place,
What gave you your edge…
Then build around that.
– Wiz
P.S. If you’re ready to build a personal brand that earns trust at scale, I’ve got two paths for you:
→ Utopia: Learn the frameworks and run it yourself
→ Mogul Media: Let my team do it for you
Just reply to this email and I’ll help you pick the one that fits.